Monday, September 12, 2011

GOING BACK TO 1985

For the love of the St. Clair River


This is the story of seven girl friends who decided they
would get together for a weekend at Stag Island
on the St. Clair River
at
MEYOONOOTIN
The cottage of the
O'Rourke family
since 1979

We decided to call it
BEST FRIENDS WEEKEND
It all started in
1985

Within the walls of the cottage
we have
laughed
cried
told secrets
expressed our hopes and dreams
we have
said how we loved our
husbands
our children
and
grandchildren
we have been
silly girls
serious girls
have even gone to the depth of our souls
have had
fashion shows
have had
our toes painted
our hair styled
and
HAVE LOVED ONE ANOTHER FOR
OVER FORTY YEARS

We have had 20 weddings
We have had 39 grandchildren
We have buried 2 children
We have buried 3 husbands
and
A wedding this summer
Everyone remembers Mugan and Casey
June 3, 2011
O HAPPY DAY

From left to right
Anita who we refer to as Mugan
Janette
Another Anita.....she and Anita
both married the Ouellette brothers
thus
Anita became Mugan
(her maiden name)
Sue
Georgette
and
me!


Donna Mae was not in the group photo
HERE SHE IS!!!!
You really had to be careful of the chair
It sure was tippy as you can see!


Back in those days we did not have
the shade of the maple trees



The island had a nickname
LUG ISLAND
What a job getting all the luggage and food from the mainland to the cottage and then back again........
I have to add....
the food did not go back!


Anita... Donna Mae... Sue

Georgette...Mugan...Janette


Another BFW
Waiting for the ferry


One of the loves of my life
Bear
He was the only 'male' allowed!!!!


Oh my gosh
Check out the pjs
Check out the socks


Hair colours are starting to change
Does that mean we are getting older????
Does that mean gray is creeping in?????


Janette was 'complaining' that she never sleeps anymore
Look at her
Every time we turned around
she was sleeping
What can I say about cottage life
and
river air


Is this anyway to wear an apron???
I thought an apron tied around the waist!!!


Kelly...... Donna Mae's daughter gave us
seven wine glasses


The kitchen has changed
We now have a bar area
It seats seven
The girls must be working on breakfast
with all of them in their housecoats


Janette was and is in charge of
THE BOOK
She has been writing in the book since the beginning
No one has seen what is in the book except for the girls
When the time comes...............
The first girl will take it to heaven with her
I can give you just a little 'peak'
All the children's wedding dates are in the book
along with the birth of each grandchild
but
I can't tell you anything else!!!!!!
At the end of each weekend Janette reads from the book
It's funny sometimes as none of us can remember
something that might have read
WE HAVE TO REMEMBER THIS OR THAT
WE LAUGH AND LAUGH AND LAUGH

Last year we did not have our weekend as Donna Mae's husband Mike was very ill
So...........
it has been two years since I hid the book
I went right to the hiding place
however
the book was not there
YIKES
HOLY COW
AM I IN TROUBLE
Well, I had to give Janette a new book
but the girls have my word
I will turn this cottage upside down
to find the hidden book!!!!!

We also have a new cart
What a wonderous invention
This was Joe's idea and we have Curtis
giving the girls a hand
The cart was a first on the island
Now there are many, many carts


OH OH OH
We had another male visitor
The boy and his Mom came for a visit
A nice surprise


You see
We did do girly things
Mugan is having a pedicure


Over the years the decor of the cottage has changed
In the background you can see posters on the wall
We have travelled many places
and it was always great to look at the posters
and remember the good times we had
Here we are all snuggled under an Afghan that my friend Mrs. David made for the cottage


I have skipped a lot of 'picture' years
Once the photo album was full
I must have stored the pictures
somewhere safe and sound
They are tucked away just like the book

Now we are into 2008


We have come leaps and bounds
The island now has a cart and wagon
Boy does it come in handy
Joe must have come back to the island to say goodbye to the girls
Here he is giving them a hand


Mugan is riding shotgun!


A peaceful picture of Georgette


We have another camera lady in the group!


The girls in 2009
Sue ... Mugan
Georgette...Janette...Donna Mae


Enjoying the afternoon


Recording in the book


Checking  out the photo album


Looks like they are having
a Bloody Mary drink!


The inside of the cottage has changed again
Joe has built bookshelves
At this point in time our home was up for sale
so we were decluttering and bringing as much as we could over to the cottage


Joe built a new kitchen table



2011
The cottage has changed once again
This is now our summer home



Here we are
All smiles

What can I say?

Johnny Cash ended one of his songs by saying
I HAD A BALL

We all had a ball!!!!!!!!!
and
We plan to keep on rolling!!!!!!!!!
















8 comments:

  1. Dianne
    Just a great job filled with so many wonderful memories. As best we could we have placed them in our memoriers but to look back with the photos is just great fun. Thanks for just another wonderful opportunity to share laughter tears and rememberances
    Love you Lots and always
    Mugan

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  2. I am so glad you have those girlfriends in your life, Dianne. What a special treasure! I really hope you find that book!

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  3. What a lucky bunch of girls you are to have such a kinship...I don't think alot of people get that in life. It makes me miss my besties back home in London but am also very fortuate to have some very special girls here in AZ. Boy, the cottage has changed over the years, it just speaks comfort at all its different stages...thanks for letting the outsiders see a glimpse of Best Friends Weekend!

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  4. The Other Georgette :o)September 13, 2011 at 5:37 AM

    Priceless !! Absolutely priceless. I've a couple of dear friends like you and we go back many years (21) as well. Like you we've shared many of life's ups and downs together side by side. I like to say we've grown up together :o) Bless you and your girlfriends for these are the bonds that make life worth living ! Surely makes it enjoyable xo You never feel alone....

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  5. Friends are the glue that keep us together.. :) Jackie xox

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  6. What a blessing you are to each other. You have been through it all - births,deaths,and weddings.

    What memories!!!! Thank you for sharing those precious times with me.

    P

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  7. It mad me cry I am so happy for all of you that you have each other...so special. I don't remember the wine glasses. I was such a good kid. Thanks for all the funny photos the cottage looks just wonderful! Glad you got to do it this year! Love you Kelly

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  8. Dianne, especially loved this blog. Enjoyed your stories, and seeing the progression of hair colors. I am glad to know someone else can "hide" things, knowing they will soon turn up. Hope the "BOOK" turns up before your next BFW. A story filled with many emotions ... loved all of it.

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